I have witnessed some horrible human behavior throughout my life. But this last episode of “Come On! Are you that stupid?” has got me thinking “Is every homewrecker really that dumb?” I have heard horror stories but this last one takes the trophy for the dumbest I have dealt with. I am appalled that this woman even thinks she has a leg to stand on.
I have never met her, never talked to her. I had seen her at
a large motorcycle camping party, where she avoided me and now, I know why. I only messaged her a few times via social
media prior to my knowing she had sex with my husband and multiple other
married men along with a few brothers from my husband’s club. This lady is a
serial homewrecker. She is known in the little motorcycle community of my town
as the slut, a massage therapist with a happy ending among many other
things. There is not a single man on
this earth who would be stupid enough to settle down with her. She reeks rotting twat. Woman like this
sicken me as they have no regard for humans at all.
I used to feel bad for people like this and would make
excuses for their behavior, but I am out of excuses and I am tired of being an
innocent victim of their immoral behavior.
It is appalling a person like this would make up lies about the
betrayed. You already did a huge amount
of damage. Enough already!
There is one main reason I needed to write this rant out
being you are called a home wrecker, you screwed up a home and marriage by being one of
the “other woman” there is no need for you to lash out at the betrayed for
calling you out on what you clearly are.
If you don’t like the truth, then F off!
You should have learned to think before you act a long time ago, you are
a grown adult. You should never open
your mouth or even worse put it in writing for all to see you harassing the
betrayed with lies and stories when you haven’t even met the betrayed spouse or
heard their side of the story.
I do not do my blog, website, and social media accounts for
attention. I have NEVER liked attention,
if you need confirmation maybe you should talk to the “brothers”. I am a person who helps others. That is my
life mission. I am taking something that
makes me unable to live a normal life and turning it around to help others who
are going through the same thing. The accusations from an uneducated dumb whore
will not be tolerated by myself or my tribe.
The amount and extent of the pain a betrayed spouse goes
through is something unimaginable until you have been through it. Studies show that PTSD from betrayal trauma
is one of the hardest things to suffer from mentally. It takes years to recover and you will never
be the same. To be a person who wants
more pain on the betrayed makes you a special kind of evil. I will enjoy watching karma do its magic.
To all my fellow survivors. You should never let one of the
other women dictate anything. Thankfully in my case it was a calculative move
that worked, and she buried herself (love it when this happens.) Stand strong and tall fellow survivors! You are and always will be the better person!
You must forget the otherwhores, skanks and homewreckers. They are not worth your time.
Just the same as your husband, they know what they did. They
know they helped break a family and shattered children’s lives. They helped break a marriage. They helped destroy another woman. They know they are not worthy of anything
from humankind. They know they are trash
that doesn’t belong here on earth. They
torture themselves every day and will continue to be tortured for the rest if
their lives unless some serious repenting is done. The karma that these people receive is
humongous. They will live their lives in misery with miserable people.
Never let the others bother you. You are a skyscraper and
they are ants.
The betrayed often feel ashamed or like they owe an
explanation for why they either stayed or left the adulterer. The heavy
pressure can be felt from family, society, community, or a social circle. This pressure can become overwhelming and debilitating
and wreaks havoc on an already fragile situation. It is important to remember
that every marriage and relationship is different. Everyone has different values and
morals. We all grieve what our
relationship once was. We all grieve in different ways and at a different pace. The one thing that we have in common is the
deep down sick to the stomach feeling of betrayal.
I chose to stay with my husband even though lots of new
revelations are out in the open and this second D-Day has taken its toll on me.
There are over a dozen woman walking around locally that I will be confronting. We were semi famous in a small town and there
is gossip. The magnitude of the damage
is a lot larger in our small community we have lived in. I don’t owe anybody an
explanation to why I am currently staying but I am going to give an explanation
just so I feel better. Plus, being able to write it out is helpful. Another
good reason is to get it written out is my therapist cancelled our appointment
last week right after I just did the big “Sit
down and ask session.” And I have some releasing I need to do.
I have been with my husband for 22 years. We have 3 children together. Our oldest 19-yr-old son has schizophrenia
and is a Type 1 Diabetic, our 16-year-old daughter has Rheumatoid Arthritis and
our youngest 7-year-old boy is very active and the most challenging of the children
so far. My husband and I have been through hell and back with each other. Is our relationship always great? HECK NO!
Do the good times outweigh the bad times? HELL YES! 80% of our marriage has been pure love and
bliss. We are the perfect team. Is this time going to be hard to overcome?
Definitely! Is it possible I am making the wrong decision? Maybe.
But no matter what I know I will be fine in the end no matter the
With everything we have gone through we have learned a lot
about illnesses. Just like our oldest son
has schizophrenia and both our parents suffer from mental illnesses we
recognize the last 4 years of behavior is partially due to an underlying mental
illness. We are still in the process of
getting everything diagnosed but I cannot tell you how proud I am of my husband
for taking the steps needed to get better.
After this second Discovery Day he has shown more remorse than he has
ever in the past. Everyday multiple
times a day he is reassuring me that everything will be okay. He holds me for as long as I need him to for
my anxiety attack to go away. He is more
aware of what I am going through and does everything in his power to
accommodate me including telling me some ugly truths that I am sure he never
thought he would tell. So far, he is doing exactly what I have asked so that I
can feel safe staying in this marriage.
If you came to a different conclusion for your own marriage
my conclusion should not affect your reasoning at all. Sometimes it is impossible to reason why we
do what we do. If you chose, you did the
first major step which is deciding.
Whether it be stay or leave you made the decision for your own reason
and you know what? You will be okay. It doesn’t feel like it but rest assured you
will be okay.