Is your spouse cheating?

Below is a list of signs I should have noticed before I found out my spouse was cheating.  Not all signs signify a cheating spouse.  Please reach out for professional help if you feel your spouse is betraying you.

  • When your spouse has little patience with you (short tempered).
  • Your location is always tracked but when you check theirs, it is off.
  • When they have access to all your accounts, computer and/or phones but you have no access to theirs. When you confront them about some of their social media friends or conversation it makes them very defensive.
  • Your whole relationship they have been over jealous or they are more jealous than usual.
  • When your intuition is telling you something is not right. Example would be you feel uncomfortable going through their vehicle or laundry.
  • They are shaving their hair different “down there”.
  • They are taking extra care of their appearance.
  • They don’t care to say goodnight to you and sleep in a different spot in the house then they normally would have.
  • They always stay up later then you or get up extra early without reason.
  • They spend an extra amount of time on the toilet or in the bathroom with door locked.
  • When they put their phone down it is placed screen down so you are unable to see the screen.
  • They make excuses about their phone not working as a reason why you were unable to get a hold of them.
  • When they say they cannot let you know where they were because it is a secret only their club or job can know.
  • Whenever you start to make friends with someone, they come up with every reason in the book why they weren’t good people and you should not be hanging out with them.
  • You are not allowed to go out with friends.  When you do you get constant text messages and phone calls.  If you were to take a long time to call back or message you get accused of being up to no good.
  • Starts taking phone calls away from you when they never did this before.
  • Checks Voicemails away from you. 
  • You are not allowed to answer their phone.
  • They have developed opinions not normal for them and they will not tell you where they heard them from.

If you would like to add anything to this list, please list them in the comments below. If you are one of the people who failed to see these signs do not fret.  There are millions who feel the same. 

Below is a list of other signs from other social platforms.

From Instagram:

  • Added: 1/15/201

@thenerveofsomepeople Stopped putting pictures of the partner on social media.

@sufficientgrace65 Constantly on computer and phone outside.

@wattsoswares Going back on the pill after they had the snip.

@awe.ful.some Came home from work freshly showered.

@nessmess24 Putting a lock on their phone and saying it was for the kids.

@k.z.dragon New cologne. New clothes and always going to the gym.

An Empath with no Compassion? Oh yes! You bet!

There have been times in my past and more recently that I have been told to have more compassion.  I guess some feel they have the right since I am a known as a highly intuitive empath, highly sensitive person, I.N.J.F., light worker, energy worker, healer, psychic, or whatever you would like to call it. I guess some would assume I am more compassionate then most people.  Well, I have also been called a witch.  So, there is that. My life experiences have taught me to distinguish between good and bad people.  If you are a serial killer, I have no empathy.  If you destroy families, no empathy.  See how that works.

I have had a recent accusation of not showing empathy. This person is a homewrecker and knowingly slept with a married man.    “You have no idea what I have been through”, is what she wrote.  No matter what you have gone through there is no excuse for you to be a shitty human being, ever. So yes lady, I have no compassion or empathy for you. None.  Even more so since you claim to have been the betrayed partner in the past.  You knew damn well what you were doing.

OTHER WOMAN, HOMEWRECKERS, SKANKS, ETC., LISTEN UP!  It is never okay to reach out to the betrayed spouse.  EVER!  There are a few exceptions to this rule, but it is never okay to initiate first contact. EVER! I am also gong point out the obvious since most of these women are half brained.  IT IS NEVER OKAY TO HAVE RELATIONS OF ANY KIND WITH A MARRIED MAN. IF IT IS OVER, MOVE ON DOWN THE ROAD!  

For all my fellow empaths, never let anybody tell you how you should feel about them.  Your impression is always right!  Trust that intuition!